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Zuma Beach hike

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Adventure in Ojai

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I have started a new category on this blog called Reviews where I will be documenting all the books I read this year – (remember this is one of my resolutions?)

The first one I’ve completed is The Story of The Streets by Mike Skinner.

It’s hard to figure out where to start… I feel like I’m about to write a declaration of love to someone who has been in my life for a while and it’s intimidating. Have been listening avidly to the Streets from the very first album back in 2002 – actually the first track I ever heard was “We all got our runnings” which was a very low-fi but very funny track that got selected to be on one of the Inrockuptibles sample CDs before that magazine became the biggest pile of shit journalism has ever known but that could be a whole blog entry in itself.

It was just before I moved to England and I instantly connected to Mike Skinner’s style and playfulness. I don’t know anyone else who captured better what english youth was about in the early noughties: mainly in the language he spoke, but also the stories he picked to tell: going out to get hammered, late night kebabs, smoking pot while watching Gail Porter on TV, betting frenzy, promiscuous girls with fake tan or getting the “unsufficient funds” message when attempting to withdraw cash. He was always so accurate – almost in a spooky way.

Because although his production skills were impressive for such a young guy and kept improving so much from album to album, what I loved most was always his lyrics. A lot of humour, a great sense of observation of human behaviour, but more importantly a lot of depth and sensitivity. Songs like “Never went to Church” or “Blip on a screen” have brought tears to my eyes. Some of the shit he says is very profound. I share his vision of an atheist type of morality in “Alleged Legends”: Do what you think’s right and you will feel alright / Cause when you’re bad you will feel sad

And I have so much admiration for his decision to end it after the 5th album, when so many bands just keep repeating themselves, holding on tightly to their past successes, crossing fingers that they’ll keep selling records and their house in the Hamptons.

He’s truly a master.

In this book, he tells the story of the Streets – his musical project, and it took me only a few days to read, it was so very interesting. In a very self-centered way I realized that Mr Skinner and I had a few things in common, he mentions NLP which I studied, has a very “can do” attitude which I think is key to anyone who wants to be successful and he also spent some time in Australia in his early twenties.

He talks a lot about the garage and grime scenes of Birmingham and London – a part which I didn’t really relate to as I never was into it. I’m not even really into hip-hop as a genre. I guess I always felt that The Streets were a genre of their own, truly unique and truly meaningful. I don’t dislike hip-hop but I always seem to be paying extra attention to the lyrics and most MC’s are really talking shit. I guess I’m more looking for pop qualities in a song. To me Kanye West and Jay-Z are more pop artists than anything, in the same way that Bob Marley was more a pop musician than reggae – when the work is universal it transcends the genre it came from. In other words, if your grandmother is dancing to the song at some wedding it’s pop music.

What was more interesting for me to read was Mr Skinner’s approach to songwriting and how he decided to embrace the process without self doubt and be very down to earth about it. He recalls going to amazon and typing “songwriting” in the search tab to get his education on the subject. He demystifies the art of songwriting by explaining that it’s all about method – not inspiration. It’s not magic, just hard work and research. It’s obvious that he has a very accute analytical mind and is a thinker, as much as an artist.

I also smiled inside when he starts talking about Coldplay and Chris Martin and how it’s now become “cool” to hate them. I’ve always loved and respected Coldplay and always find it ridiculous when people slag them off. It seems whenever anyone gets really big it becomes uncool to like them, and I’ve never been like that as I’ve never worried about being cool. Sometimes I want to tell people to stop worrying about being cool, but rather work at being good. Here is what Mike has to say on the subject:

“I’ve always been puzzled by how furious some people – mainly music journalists, but not only them – seem to get about Chris’s success. He’s great live, he writes these amazingly unadorned but instantly memorable songs, and you can’t say he’s not a fantastic musician. So i’m with his good friends Kanye West and Jay-Z on this one. A lot of the people who are most vehement in their disapproval seem to come from the same kind of upper-middle-class background as he does, and seeing him holding Glastonbury in the palm of his hand makes them feel a bit uneasy. But you can’t tell them, ‘Deep down, what you really hate is not Chris Martin, it’s yourself’ because they might get a bit upset.”

Here is another excerpt I really related to, especially at this stage of my life where I feel the need to be more and more solitary:

“When I was growing up, I imagined being around lots of strangers would be something I would find really exciting, and I had that experience for a year or so when I was in Australia and really enjoyed it. But having done that enabled me to eventually realize (and it did take seveal years for this to finally become clear to me) that I actually don’t like being around people I don’t know.”

I am in awe of the fact that he decided to write this book (yeah, why not?! Can do!) and did a very good job at it! He is – so I heard – currently working on developing a film.

Mr Skinner is one of the people I’m happy to be alive with at the same time and I look forward to experiencing what he’s going to come up with next.

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It’s accepted that New Year’s wishes can be sent during the whole month of january    so in the same way I would like to add a couple more resolutions to my list for 2013.

1) Stop thinking my mission in life is to make other people happy.

2) Run a half-marathon in 2014. A half-marathon is 13 miles. I don’t know yet which one I will run. I might not actually be able to run it but I will walk-run it if needs be. I currently can hike for about 6 miles – which is not running, but which is a lot harder than walking. Gotta find which one I want to sign up for. Who’s in? 😉

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Reflections on the past few weeks – part II

Another lightbulb moment came to me on New Year’s Eve (comme quoi, tout peut arriver hein) as I was laying in my pyjama in bed by like half past midnight (and happy to be so…)

I’m not sure why (a hightenned sense of honour? a fear of breaking the rules? a need for validation?) but so far I have been leading my life attempting to respect a certain set of principles, or ethics that, incidently, noone else seems to give a shit about. These principles can be for example: always reply to the emails people send you (today it’s not so much a problem than when I was an agent dealing with lots of strangers contacting me with various motives), or be loyal to friends, or make time for people even if you want to be alone or be kind / be generous / smile / make people feel valued / listen to people’s bullshit even if you want to scream inside, don’t get angry, don’t tell the truth if it hurts people and the list goes on…

And you know what? Respecting these rules hasn’t brought me anything – or maybe just more hassle and stress. I’m not more loved, more popular or happier than the next man who doesn’t bother with these. Oh and people take revenge on favours you’ve done to them, as life has more than once proven to me. Being kind or smily or helpful only make people respect you less (!) since it makes you come accross as a pushover. And I don’t have more friends or respect or success because of this weird “code of honour” I’m trying to stick to…

So what now? Why would I try to act with ethics when nobody else is? Does that only make me a dick?

Why not just do what makes me happy?

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The popularity of segways is the sign of the destruction of all human values.

Rastafaris can play djembé while rollerskating.

Languages heard besides english: russian, french, spanish.

Santa Monica is really pretty.

Can’t wait to start surfing.

Never seen so many bums.

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Reflections on the past few weeks – part I

I have spent the last few weeks putting my mind and surroundings in order, and visiting some old friends that life too easily endistances. (Yes I like making up words)

I’ve enjoyed being the solitary traveller that comes knocking on doors and meets for the first time children I’ve heard so much about, and I’ve enjoyed catching up with some wonderful people in La Roche Sur Yon, Dorset, Brighton and London, and hosting visitors from New Jersey.

The rest of my time I’ve spent in Paris, seeing friends and family but mostly arranging my flat and daydreaming – which has led me to some wonderful reverie and thoughts.

In the process I’ve had a couple of major lightbulb moments related to some relationships which have fell apart in the last few months/years – making me realize that I had totally made up those people in my mind. By that I mean that I seem to have a grand capacity for idealization (if you don’t idealize, you don’t love, right?) and things tend to have a life of their own in my brain – particularly people. So here I am, disappointed by the behaviour of someone (who is completely acting themselves) but showing a behaviour that is conflicting with the “image” I had built of that person. It came as a shock to see that for years I had been in friendships with people I had litterally created, put on a piedestal for no tangible reason and loved not for their actual achievements, generosity or real personality traits – but for imaginary contructions, transpositions, projections that my lowered self-esteem felt the need to create so I could focus on how loveable they were compared to me.

My capacity for love and idealization outside of myself is enormous and goes beyond the frame of rationalism. I sometimes feel like my cup is overflowing with love and joy which leads me to see people better than what they are, shower them with gifts, love and encouragement, instead of basing my sentiment on actual facts and actions. I’ve got to try working on dismantling these thought processes because I seriously have no time for anything but high standards in my relationships – and I must make sure I am redirecting that overflowing love back into me, where it belongs.

Another thing: I’ve come accross one display of incredible genuine kindness which has made me feel very good.

Apart from that – I’m back on the road again now, with a few more insights and a renewed sense of joy.

BOOYA.

Oh and the shop‘s ready!

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